By now, the ASM should be completely confused about the opposite sex. Monthly magazines inform us of new ways in which to lure the ladies and every month the material is different. Same with relationships and sex, the advice constantly changes. We aren't chameleons and apparently if we miss an issue we won't be able to compete. At least, that is what the magazines want us to believe. So what is the average guy supposed to do?

It gets worse. Most ASM's work or have things to do during the day. This is the time when many talk shows discuss our lifestyles. Who benefits from this information? The answer is, women. The female audience learns about heartache, love, sex, romance, and insights into the lives of the ASM. Granted, the shows also touch on travel, trivia, gossip, and politics, but the main focus revolves around relationship issues and how to make them better. The ASM is now not only confused, but not as informed as his female counterpart.

In this section, I will give you the truth, from my perspective, concerning relationships, women, and sex. It will be concise, direct, and if you wish to take a risk, easy to apply. I will not garnish the material with the useless bullshit or romantic banter reserved for the general media. This is my opportunity to pass on what I believe may assist the ASM in becoming a little more competitive in the dating scene. Remember, these suggestions, thoughts, and insights have worked for me. I do not guarantee the material will transform every man into a Casanova or every woman into a Venus, but it may allow some persons to make better decisions in relationships.